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Choose wisely — all we truly have are time and choice.

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As another year ends and a new one begins to emerge, one thing becomes clearer than ever: life is driven by two forces — Time and Choice.

Not money. Not luck. Not connections. Not even willpower.

Just time — which is constantly moving…

And Choice, which determines what that time produces.

Every December, we reflect on how the months seem to have vanished. But the truth is: time never really vanished — we filled it. Filled it with routines, reactions, habits, fears, attempts, hopes, distractions, prayers, and decisions. Whether good or bad, intentional or unconscious, we choose how to spend our time.

And that’s why each year’s end always confronts us with the same profound, personal question:

How did my choices affect my time?

Time: “The Only Currency That Never Waits”

Time is impartial. It doesn’t discriminate based on tribe, age, gender, bank account, location, or connections. A billionaire and a bricklayer each have 24 hours. A newlywed couple and a couple in crisis get the same 24 hours. The student, the CEO, the parent, the unemployed graduate, and the struggling entrepreneur—all have the same 24 hours.

Time is the ultimate equalizer… but choice remains the most critical differentiator.

What time offer each of us is not negotiable.

What we do with time is entirely our choice.

Choice: The Silent Architect of Every Destiny

Every year, people pray for change, hope for change, or wait for change.

But life doesn’t respond to hope — it responds to choices.

    • Your relationships follow the direction of your choices.
    • Your peace of mind increases or decreases based on your choices.
    • Your mental health depends on your choices.
    • Your career, marriage, friendships, and habits are shaped by the decisions you make each day.

And here is the most sobering truth:

    • You cannot outsource your choices.

Even not choosing is still a choice.

Some people opt for avoidance.

Some people prefer silence.

Some individuals and couples prefer to endure in silence.

Some people keep repeating the same cycles because they are afraid of change.

Some people keep choosing “later” because it feels safer than taking action now.

But delaying isn’t a strategy — it’s a slow leak.

As the Year Comes to a Close, Reflect on These Questions…

This isn’t about guilt; it’s about clarity.

    • What took up most of your time this year?
    • What has nourished you?
    • What choices brought you closer to the life you want?
    • What decisions kept you stuck?
    • What have you tolerated that you should have confronted?
    • What did you delay that needed to be urgent?
    • What future did your choices quietly build?

Because each year isn’t just passing…It is sculpting you.

The New Year Is a Blank Page — Not a Magic Wand

The transition from December 31st to January 1st doesn’t automatically solve what you refuse to confront.

It cannot heal a marriage where silence has become the language. It does not bolster a mind that is overwhelmed and exhausted. It doesn’t boost someone’s confidence if they’ve been diminishing themselves. It does not replace unhealthy habits with healthier ones.

A new year is just a new container. It will hold whatever choices you put into it.

If You Want a Better Year, Make Better Choices.

Making better choices starts with awareness. Awareness brings clarity. Clarity fosters courage. Courage paves the way for transformation. You don’t have to face these choices alone.

This is where Talk Space Counselling Services steps in.

    • We help you understand why you make the choices you do.
    • We help you break emotional patterns that keep recurring.
    • We help you achieve healing, clarity, and intentional decision-making.
    • We assist couples in choosing each other with renewed understanding.
    • We assist individuals in adopting healthier ways of thinking, feeling, and living.

With professional support, your choices no longer stem from fear, trauma, confusion, or survival, but from wisdom, self-awareness, and vision.

As You Step Into a New Year… Choose Wisely

    • Choose healing instead of pretending.
    • Prioritize communication instead of silence.
    • Prioritize connection instead of distance.
    • Choose growth rather than comfort.
    • Prioritize clarity rather than confusion.
    • Prioritize boundaries rather than pleasing others.
    • Choose counseling instead of trying to handle it alone.
    • Choose the life you want, not the life fear permits.

Because, at the end of the day:

Time will pass.

Choices will influence the outcome, and your future will reflect what you choose.

As this new year approaches, dare to make wise choices. If you need a safe, private space to unpack your year, process your emotions, heal your heart, strengthen your relationships, or rediscover yourself, consider…

Ijebu Rewa Presents Landed Property to 7-Year-Old Girl at Christmas Party

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Fun, excitement and education came together on Sunday at Otunba Dipo Dina International School as Ijebu Rewa hosted the second edition of its annual Christmas celebration, tagged the Ijebu Rewa Owanbe Party.

The colourful event drew over 600 children and more than 300 parents, creating a vibrant atmosphere of joy and celebration. Popular children’s host, MC Clymas, kept the audience fully entertained with his energetic performance, delighting both young and old.

Beyond the festivities, the programme placed strong emphasis on intellectual development and confidence-building. A special Word Search competition, coordinated by Barrister Adunola Adelaja, Founder of Triple A’s Widows Foundation, alongside Mr Adetola, featured over 100 participating children.

At the end of the contest, a seven-year-old girl, Oyebo Bandele Serena, emerged as the overall winner and was rewarded with a half plot of land an extraordinary gift sponsored by Ijebu Rewa.

Parents at the event commended the organisers for successfully blending fun with learning, describing the party as innovative, impactful and unforgettable. Many appealed for the initiative to be held more frequently.

Speaking with journalists, the Ijebu Rewa boss, Ambassador Sijuade Olalekan, expressed gratitude to God and appreciation to parents for their trust and support.

“We thank God and all the parents who believed in us. This programme is about giving children a sense of value, confidence and opportunity,” he said.

Several parents also shared glowing testimonies which one described the celebration as unprecedented in the entire Ijebuland.

“This event is far better than many paid parties of N3,000 and N4,000. I give the organisers a pass mark for this epoch-making event. My children enjoyed themselves so much they didn’t even want to leave. They are already asking when the next party will be.

“I thank the organisers for building their self-esteem and confidence,” the parent said.
Similarly, another guest, who preferred to remain anonymous, praised the organisers and the vision behind the initiative.

“Even though I wasn’t feeling well, my children dragged me here. Now they are asking for tomorrow’s party. Thank you for giving the less privileged a chance to feel loved. May God replenish everything you spent,” the guest said.

The Ijebu Rewa Christmas Party once again demonstrated how community-based initiatives can inspire, educate and uplift children, while bringing families together in the true spirit of the festive season.

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A New Era of Leadership for Ijebuland

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At moments of transition, societies often pause, not merely to choose successors, but to reflect on the qualities of stewardship required for the next chapter. In Ijebuland, where tradition prizes restraint, lineage, and character over self-promotion, such moments invite careful consideration rather than noise.

As discussions continue within the Fusengbuwa Ruling House following the end of a historic reign, attention has naturally turned to individuals whose life paths suggest long preparation for responsibility.

Among those being thoughtfully mentioned is Barr. Prince Oriola Adeyemi, of the Olufadi/Obanlefa branch of the Fusengbuwa Ruling House, a son of Ijebu whose journey has bridged ancestral grounding, global institutions, and consistent community engagement.

Prince Oriola’s story is notable not for public campaigning, but for the steady accumulation of experience in institutions where judgment, patience, and integrity are essential. His academic path alone reflects uncommon rigor.

Prince Olawale holds an Executive LL.M. in Securities and Financial Law from Georgetown University Law Center, and a Juris Doctor from Hofstra University School of Law, where he earned the New York State Bar Association Corporate Counsel Section’s Kenneth G. Standard Award. Earlier, he studied Economics, Finance, and English Literature at City University of New York (Lehman College) as a Starr Foundation Full Tuition Scholar-an interdisciplinary foundation that blends analysis with cultural awareness.

Professionally, Prince Oriola has served at the highest levels of global regulation and legal practice. He is currently a Senior Associate at Simpson Thacher & Bartlett LLP, advising leading financial institutions like JP Morgan, Blackstone and KKR.

His work involves governance, compliance, disclosures, board advisory, and regulatory strategy-core skills directly transferable to the leadership of a complex traditional institution interfacing with modern government and global partners. Before this, he was Counsel at Faegre Drinker Biddle & Reath LLP, where he advised fund boards, sponsors, and directors on governance, risk management, ESG (environmental, social, and governance) matters, and regulatory compliance.

Before this, he was Senior Counsel at the United States Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) in Washington, D.C. At the SEC, he was not merely interpreting policy; he helped draft and shape major national rules, including Regulation Best Interest (Reg BI), Form CRS, fiduciary duty interpretations, custody reforms, ESG disclosure initiatives, and fund-naming regulations. His work earned multiple Chairman’s Awards, recognizing service to the public interest and excellence in rulemaking-distinctions that speak to trust, competence, and ethical leadership.

Unlike many aspirants whose leadership credentials are aspirational, Prince Oriola’s career is defined by writing the rules that govern institutions, advising boards at the highest level, and balancing tradition with innovation. His work at the SEC, FINRA, and leading law firms required integrity, patience, consensus-building, and respect for established frameworks-qualities deeply resonant with Ijebu kingship values.

Beyond law and regulation, Prince Oriola is a Partner at The Adomi Group (www.adomigroup.com), a multidisciplinary platform engaged in advisory, investment, and development initiatives across Africa and the diaspora. The group is currently in talks to develop a world class resort in Ijebu Epe similar to one that the group recently completed in Akosombo.

This work reflects a long-term orientation toward institution-building, economic development, and governance-concerns increasingly central to conversations about the future of Ijebuland.

Beyond his professional life, he has remained actively connected to Ijebuland as an active member of Obayori Akilé Ijebu Regberegbe, participating in age-grade service and collective responsibility, a cornerstone of Ijebu social organization. He supports family institutions, heritage preservation, mentoring youth, and consistently articulating a vision of kingship rooted in Ìwà, Ọgbọ́n, and Ìtẹ̀síwájú (character, wisdom, and progress).

In Ijebu tradition, kingship is not claimed through declaration; it emerges through lineage, readiness, and the judgment of elders. Seen in this light, Prince Oriola’s presence in current discussions appears less as ambition than as a claim shaped by time and preparation.

As Ijebuland looks ahead, the question is not only who may succeed, but what kind of stewardship the moment requires. Many observe that the future will demand leaders who can honour tradition while engaging confidently with modern institutions and a global Ijebu community.

In that sober reflection, Prince Oriola’s life offers an example of preparation without haste, service without spectacle, and readiness without noise-qualities that have long defined enduring leadership in Ijebuland.

MRS Price Cut Triggers Long Queues as Lagos Motorists Rush for Fuel

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Motorists on Wednesday crowded MRS filling stations after petrol prices dropped from N890 to N739 per litre, easing costs and leading to long queues across Lagos metropolis.

The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) correspondent, who visited some filling stations on Wednesday, observed long but orderly queues at MRS outlets in Lagos.

The filling stations visited were at Alaka, Onipanu, Anthony, Alapere, Oba Akran, Kodesho Street, Ikeja (Computer Village axis), Iju Road by Pen Cinema, Abule-Egba and Ojota Bus Stop.

NAN also reports that motorists reportscthat there was vehicular traffic around the stations, with many motorists spending hours in line, encouraged by the significant price difference compared with other marketers.

There was widespread compliance with the price directive issued by the Dangote Petroleum Refinery, which mandated all MRS retail outlets nationwide.

Motorists and commuters described the price cut as a timely relief amid prevailing economic pressures, particularly during the Christmas and New Year celebrations.

They noted that it had helped to ease transportation costs.

Some commuters told NAN that the reduction was already beginning to reflect on transport fares in certain areas.

They urged transport operators to fully pass on the benefits to passengers.

They also called on the Federal Government and other major oil marketers to replicate the initiative nationwide, while appealing to the Dangote Refinery to extend the price relief to rural and hinterland communities.

NAN, however, observed that a few MRS stations, along Liasu Road, Idimu and Akowonjo, were still dispensing petrol at about N880 per litre.

A pump attendant, who spoke anonymously, attributed the higher price to logistical challenges, including poor road conditions affecting supply.

NAN further reports that other marketers, including NNPC Ltd., AP, Mobil, Northwest, Petrocam and several independent operators, continue to sell petrol at prices ranging from N880 to N890 per litre.

Commenting on the development, Mr Joshua Francis, a lecturer, commended the Dangote Petroleum Refinery for what he described as a laudable intervention.

He urged the government and other marketers to consider further price reductions during the yuletide.

Similarly, Mrs Alice Bamdele, a business woman, called for the deployment of monitoring teams to check fuel meters and sanction outlets involved in under-dispensing.

Mr Olarenwaju Saliu, a transporter, appealed for improved dispensing systems at MRS stations to reduce queues and ease stress for motorists.

Xmas: Prince Oriola Prays for Peace and Progress in Ijebuland

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Prince Olawale Adeyemi-Oriola (Esq.), a United States–based Nigerian and aspirant to the Awujale stool, has extended warm Christmas greetings to the people of Ijebuland, both at home and in the diaspora, urging them to remain optimistic and hopeful for a better tomorrow as the nation celebrates the 2025 Christmas season.

Prince Oriola described Christmas, which marks the birth of Jesus Christ, as a symbol of God’s universal love for mankind. He emphasized the need for the Ijebu people to embrace the virtues of love, unity, and selflessness, noting that these values are essential for sustainable growth and development.

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